Nowadays, a relationship where the man is much older than the woman is not something out of ordinary. Adult males can and, most importantly, want to look handsome in a woman’s eyes. Not only do they give flowers and gifts, but they also court in a very gallant manner. Experienced partner knows how to seduce a woman, how to please her. These meetings are marvellous and unforgettable.
Women are attracted to experienced men by their confidence, stability and responsibility. With such a man, she feels like an individual. She can grow knowing that he will support her in her endeavors. He will not envy her success; moreover, is will get him even more interested. He does not need to be pampered. This is what a real man should be like, but the idea becomes clear with growing up and gaining more experience.
Of course, there are also shortcomings. This is bothe the gap between the preferences and choice of leisure activities on both parts. Permanent employment of men (the more successful the man is, the more work he usually has to do). There is also the “pecking order”: a grown man is always right, he is likely to subdue and to moralize. Finally, rarely are the problems with older children of the other spouse avoidable.